Thursday, September 18, 2008

LIAR LIAR.....HOW TO CATCH ONE

So got confused on why this topic now ? It has got a reason as i said this is a place where i put down my mind and at this moment my mind is very disturbed and i am not able to do anything so bunked the college today and am writing this up.Dont ask me why and what but just this is my mind now and i am venting out my frustration in this way.

So lets catch a liar who is accoustomed to telling lies.......as there is a dialogues of amitabh i speak english,i walk english.......like wise a liar speaks lies,eats lies,talks lies and what not........!!

these are some tips to catch a liar .....

Experts have 10 tips that can let you know if someone isn't telling you the whole truth.

1) Inconsistencies : When you want to know if someone is lying, look for inconsistencies in what they are saying,i think you can easily figure out this .

2) Ask the Unexpected :About 4% of people are accomplished liars and they can do it well,But because there are no Pinocchio responses to a lie, you have to catch them in it.Watch them carefully,And then when they don't expect it, ask them one question that they are not prepared to answer to trip them up.

3)Gauge Against a Baseline: One of the most important indicators of dishonesty is changes in behavior,The trick, is to gauge their behavior against a baseline. Is a person's behavior falling away from how they would normally act? If it is, that could mean that something is up.

4)Look for Insincere Emotions: Most people can't fake smile,The timing will be wrong, it will be held too long, or it will be blended with other things. Maybe it will be a combination of an angry face with a smile; you can tell because their lips are smaller and less full than in a sincere smile.

These fake emotions are a good indicator that something has gone afoul.

5)Pay Attention to Gut Reactions:While an average person might not know what it is he's seeing when he thinks someone isn't being honest and attribute his suspicion to instinct, a scientist like me would be able to pinpoint it exactly

6)Watch for Microexpressions:

7)  Look for Contradictions :The general rule is anything that a person does with their voice or their gesture that doesn't fit the words they are saying can indicate a lie.

8) A Sense of Unease : 

9) Too Much Detail : Too much detail could mean they've put a lot of thought into how they're going to get out of a situation and they've crafted a complicated lie as a solution.

10) Don't Ignore the Truth :It's more important to recognize when someone is telling the truth than telling a lie because people can look like they're lying but be telling truth.


I know exactly why i wrote this at this moment.........i am sick of lies and dual standards ,Oh God save me save me save me and also my dear friends from the Liars.




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